Today is Easter. The day that Christians around the world celebrate the resurrection of Jesus Christ. This Easter is unique because much of the world has shut down because of the Novel Coronavirus.

Easter Sunday marks the end of the season of Lent…the 40 days (excluding Sundays) between Ash Wednesday and Easter. In many Christian traditions Lent serves as a period of penitential preparation for Easter, and many Christians choose to give up something of pleasure in imitation of Jesus Christ’s fasting in the wilderness before he began his public ministry. Each year it is common to hear the question, “What did you give up for Lent?” I often hear people say that they gave up chocolate (my dad’s go to), dessert all together (um, no way I could do that), alcohol, or social media. As a teenager I often tried to give up chocolate or candy, but my views on the “giving up” in Lent changed after a conversation I had in my early twenties.

The Strietelmeiers have a collective sweet tooth.  Dark chocolate gets Grandma Striet, Dad, Trish, and me like no other vice can!

When I was completing my student teaching, I had a conversation about giving something up for Lent with my cooperating teacher. (He would eventually leave the field of education to become a pastor.) I told him that during Lent I was planning to go without the daily soda that I picked up on my way to school. His simple response changed everything for me. He asked me what I would be adding in its place. Would I take the time that I would have spent in the drive thru to read the bible? Would I take the money that I would have spent on the Diet Coke and give it to a charity, and would I pray for that cause for the 40 days of Lent? What would I do to become closer to God, because simply giving up Diet Coke (or dessert, alcohol, or Facebook) can’t strengthen your connection to your Savior. Almost twenty years later I still remember those powerful words.

If you would have asked me anytime in the last few years what I gave up for Lent you would have received the tongue and cheek reply of, “I’m a church musician, so I gave up my free time for Lent!” For the last five years I have served as the Choir Director and Director of Music Ministries at Friedens UCC. In my role at the church Lent is literally a time of preparation for Holy Week and Easter. As soon as the Ash Wednesday service is over we begin rehearsing music for Holy Week. I’m being serious, I march the choir right from the sanctuary to our rehearsal space once the service ends! Our weekly choir rehearsals get longer during Lent. Instead of practicing for about an hour each Wednesday, we stay for almost two hours and I get home well past nine. During Holy Week (Palm Sunday through Easter Sunday) I’m usually at the church building for 6 services, 2 meetings, a service walk through, and a 3 hour choir rehearsal in the span of 8 days. It is intense, but I love every minute of it! It is during Lent that I feel closest to Christ, and I know that it is because of the things that I add during those 40 days. I read more scripture. I study more hymn text. I spend more time serving along side multiple teams at the church. I spend more time in prayer. Yes, all of these things are requirements of my job, but they allow me to focus on my faith for 40 days in a way that is very different from every other part of the year.

This year, Lent began on Wednesday, February 26. On Friday, March 13 the first Social Distancing mandate was announced in Indiana. To me it seems that everyone in Indiana, everyone in the United States, heck everyone around the world has given something up for Lent this year. Children cannot go to school. Travel is banned. All public places, including churches, are closed. Visitors are not allowed in hospitals or nursing homes. It is strongly advised that you not share Easter dinner with your family if they do not live in your home. Small business have been forced to close their doors, and for some they will be closed permanently. So many people have lost their jobs. You can’t go to bars, restaurants, or movie theaters. It is difficult to get groceries. Eating at a restaurant means navigating new curbside pickup policies or having it delivered via a third party vendor. Because of Social Distancing measures, almost everyone has given up something that brings them pleasure.

At the same time, people have added so, so much. Because of the fear, sadness, and the overwhelming changes to every aspect of life, people are praying. I mean really, really praying. Praying for an end to the pandemic. Praying for the safety of those on the front lines of this mess. Praying for those who have contracted the virus and are ill. Praying for comfort for families who have lost loved ones. The feelings of worry, fear, and stress are bringing people back to the church. Granted they are “going to church” via the internet, but they are going! Because you aren’t supposed to be around anyone who doesn’t live in your home, almost overnight society found new ways (thank you Facebook and Zoom) to stay connected. People are checking on each other and loving on each other in a way that I haven’t seen since 9-11. Random acts of kindness are happening everywhere. Some people are grocery shopping for those they know who are at higher risk. Many people are sewing masks. Others are doing everything in their power to keep their favorite local restaurants, coffee shops, breweries, and wineries afloat during the shut down. Meals and baked good are being left on porches, just because. The list goes on and on.

I’m not going to lie, I have struggled with not being able to be in worship at my church. We haven’t been able to meet on our campus since March 8, and I miss it terribly. Making music centers me and is my stress relief. The people that I work with and serve beside at the church are some of the most important people in my life, and I miss them very much! I want very much to be back in worship on our church campus!

I have made a promise to God that I will never, ever complain about being too busy and tired during Holy Week ever again!  

But, I haven’t completely hated this very different Lent. I have enjoyed slowing down. We are eating dinner together as a family every night. I am much more intentional about my ministry since we have to execute worship services in a very new way. I have had the opportunity to participate in worship as a congregant, not as a staff member (and believe me there is a big difference). I’ve had a lot more time at home with my husband and boys. My ten year old and I have watched countless movies, and together we have walked the dog for miles. Quarantine life has provided the chance to examine what is truly important to me. There are definitely things that I will never take for granted again, and I have an equally long list of things that I won’t be in a hurry to add back into my schedule once Social Distancing measures are lifted.

My prayer is that next year Lent and Holy Week aren’t like they are this year, but that they don’t go back to “normal” either. I pray that next year we can worship in our sanctuary, but that we are also able to keep the connection to one another that the sacrifices of Social Distancing have forced us to create. I pray that next year we don’t have to give up as much, but instead we all choose to add a few things for at least 40 days that help us connect with our Savior!